Nurturing Hearts,
Igniting Souls
It is my honor to hold space for you in your healing journey.
About Duewa "Kaya" Spicer
When I was younger, I believed that love and sex had to look a certain way. That sex was something to be whispered about, desire was dangerous, and healing was something you did quietly, in the privacy of your own shame. I believed that being “too much” was a flaw to fix, not a fire to tend.
Now I know better.
Now I know that healing often begins in the places we were told to avoid—in the heat of our wants, the ache of our loneliness, and the boundaries we never knew we were allowed to have. I know that therapy isn’t just about coping—it’s about claiming. Claiming your right to pleasure. To complex, nonlinear healing. To relationship models that feel like freedom. To sex that is spiritual, playful, connected, and consensual. To be witnessed without flinching.
In my work, I honor the sacredness of erotic energy, the legitimacy of kink, the beauty of non-monogamy, and the messy brilliance of being human. I don’t offer quick fixes or shallow scripts. I offer a relationship built on trust, depth, and the radical belief that you are not broken—you are becoming.
Here, we don’t just talk about healing. We practice it. In your body, in your boundaries, in your breath.
I obtained my Master of Social Work from the University of Southern California with a concentration in Health and Military Social Work. I am completed over 5 years of post graduate education in sexuality and relationship issues. I am a licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist, Internal Family Systems Therapist Trained in the Developmental Model by Drs. Ellyn and Pete Bader.
As the mother, daughter, granddaughter, niece, and spouse of military veterans, I am honored to work with all veterans including LGBTQIA+ service members.
If you are looking for a therapist experienced in LGBTQIA, Gender and Erotic Diverse, EthicalNonMonogamy, Consensual NonMonogamy, Swinger LS, Polyamory BDSM/ KINK I’d be happy to schedule a free 15-20 minute consultation to see if we vibe.
My Values
-
What we speak about in therapy stays between us. This is your space to explore without fear—your secrets, stories, and desires are held in deep trust. I honor the responsibility that comes with hearing the raw and vulnerable parts of you, and I protect that trust fiercely. Your privacy is not just a rule—it’s a ritual of respect.
-
I value creativity as an essential part of the therapeutic process. This means embracing innovative approaches and thinking outside the box to find healing strategies that are uniquely tailored to each individual’s needs. I encourage safe exploration and expression in therapy, helping clients discover new ways of addressing challenges and unlocking personal growth.
-
Compassion is at the heart of my therapeutic approach. It involves a deep sense of empathy and understanding of your struggles and experiences. By cultivating compassion, I create a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can feel supported and cared for, fostering healing and self-acceptance.
-
Acceptance is about embracing exactly where you are are in your journey, without judgment or expectation. My therapy is rooted in the belief that everyone deserves to be accepted for who they are, with all their unique experiences and challenges. This promotes a sense of validation and encourages clients to explore their authentic selves without fear of rejection.
Reach out to me today!
Please complete the form below to schedule a free consultation.
We will contact you within 72 hours of your request.
By submitting this form via this web portal, you acknowledge and accept the risks of communicating your health information via this unencrypted email and electronic messaging and wish to continue despite those risks. By clicking "Yes, I want to submit this form" you agree to hold Brighter Vision harmless for unauthorized use, disclosure, or access of your protected health information sent via this electronic means.